Hitch and True Love

Hitch is a funny movie because it is a romantic comedy. In this movie Will Smith is Alex. His character’s job is to create opportunities for his clients. He helps them to establish a relationship with the women they love. At the end Alex (Will Smith) ends up with Sara (Eva Mendes). It took a lot for these two characters to end up together. The reason is that, finding true love is not that easy.

It is great to feel your heart beating faster and faster every time you see the person you love. The little things you two do together, make you feel wonderful. All of the sudden, everything has a special meaning. The reality is that, finding true love is difficult, but falling in love is one of the most amazing things in the world. 

Sometimes relationships work out. People end up getting married, just like several of the characters in the movie. In our society, getting married is a good thing to do. Your wedding suppose to make you happy. Remember, it means that you will spend the rest of your life, with the person you love. On the other hand, there are times when relationships do not last. You cannot force a person to love you. This is the time when you break up, even if you love your partner. After a break up you feel terrible. It is like part of you has die. You ask yourself if it was fair. The pain is so unbearable that, you do not want to feel it again.This is a difficult situation or experience for any human being. 

The best advice I received after a break up was “ Keep breathing. Keep living.”  When a friend said this to me I really did not pay too much attention. I spent days crying and this did not make me feel better. Finally, I remembered my friends words and followed her advice. At the beginning, it was hard. There were too any memories and so many things to throw away. Putting the albums in the garbage can, was like putting a knife into my heart. But I kept saying to myself  “Keep breathing. Keep living.”  Weeks and months went by and I started feeling better. One day, maybe after a year, I was able to see my ex again, without feeling upset or nervous. He was just another person. This was the day I realized that, I was ready to start dating again. I knew I might get hurt. I also thought about the opposite. I might find the one person that can love me and that I can love forever. Just like Will Smith and Eva Mendes, in the movie Hitch.

T.B.F.