Beautiful People and Happiness
Marilyn Monroe wanted to be recognized for her acting ability having changed her name from Norma Jean and experienced harsh treatment at a girl’s boarding school. However, Marilyn Monroe was always recognized for her beauty and not for her prowess on the stage and the golden screen.
Beautiful people are often chosen for the best jobs when there is competition with the average looking person with the same credentials. However, beautiful people can often be the loneliest people because not only men are visual individuals but women are as well. Even if the person has a beautiful personality as well meaning that the beauty is only skin deep, still these beautiful people often find themselves alone because of the envy of both sexes.
George Clooney although not the most loneliest person in show business but by far more handsome than most actors have had a time getting nominated for an academy award because of his good looks. The reasoning is just like the beautiful people, others tend to look at what they see on the outside persona and is either intimidated or fiercely envious without letting the beautiful person get recognized for real talent.
Other movie stars such as Marilyn Monroe were thought to be the sex symbol of the century but were never recognized for her acting ability. Marilyn Monroe wanted to be recognized for her acting ability having changed her name from Norma Jean and experienced harsh treatment at a girl’s boarding school. However, Marilyn Monroe was always recognized for her beauty and not for her prowess on the stage and the golden screen.
Angelina Jolie, a beautiful actress as well and not in the era of the blonde bombshells did what most average looking people fear and that is she took Brad Pitt from Jennifer Anniston. The academy awards media had fun with Jennifer Anniston and had her to present an award with Angelina Jolie and her stolen Brad Pitt sitting within an arms throw of the golden academy award stature that Jennifer Anniston was holding. Many probably thought that the academy award stature was going to literally sail in Angelina Jolie’s direction as she sit snuggly with Jennifer Anniston ex husband, Brad Pitt, reportedly the man of her dreams.
That is the plight of beautiful people and that is everyone thinks that they are going to steal the man away from them or vice versus. However beautiful people are human beings first with the same human qualities of other people but somehow have enhanced features that the majority deems pleasing to look at and to associate with except for the talent recognition.
Beautiful people are the lonely and recognized ones because the average are intimidated and afraid to approach a beautiful person because they think that they do not measure up to who is gracing them with their beauty.
However, upon close examination, beautiful people have the same wants and the same needs as the average looking person. Beautiful people are shunned by everyday acquaintances because like the Angelina Jolie and Jennifer Anniston situation, they think that their boyfriends will get taken from them. It is true that beautiful people are pleasant to watch and to look at but there are more to beautiful people than just being ogled and from people who long for a relationship but are too insecure to approach them.
Beautiful people who find themselves in a lonely place needs to reach out to charitable organizations and functions where the emphasis is on what can be done for those who are less fortunate. Beautiful people do not need to forego social functions and hide themselves in the wings.
One would not think that beauty would be a burden to the beautiful people. In the context of meeting guys and being in the midst of other girls and knowing that the guys are going to prefer the beautiful girl is just hard on the other girls. The other girls in the posse need to get a grip and know that there is someone for everyone.
Maybe the guy who somehow gets the nerve to approach the beautiful girl was not meant to be in the other girl’s future. There is a guy for every girl and the beautiful girls should not be penalized for taking care of herself physically and mentally to be an asset to society even though seemingly a detriment to insecure girlfriends.
It is certain that the Angelina Jolie and the Jennifer Anniston incident of the man paying attention to the most beautiful woman will be repeated endlessly. But the beautiful people got to realize that it is the man’s choice and although beauty attracts men, beauty should not be a burden on the beautiful.
Beautiful people should not isolate themselves from social events for an example because they know they are mostly going to catch the guy because of most guy’s tendency to be visual. There are secure girls who are not intimated by a beautiful woman and secure guys who are not afraid to approach the beautiful woman.
Loneliness should not be made home to beautiful women because of the insecurities of others. Instead beautiful people as aforementioned need to see what they can do to make the world a better place and be a reservoir to help others who are in need.